My cat attacks me. What’s behind their aggression and how should I react?
- They go from cuddling to biting or scratching in the blink of an eye
- They bite you, scratch you, or even attack other family members
- You feel helpless, worried, even guilty
Rest assured: feline aggression is a common problem, and there are solutions.
Contact me!
Briefly describe what brings you here: your cat, what you are noticing and for how long.
A swipe of the claws is often a message.
You’re not alone
Everyday life with a cat who attacks can quickly become stressful, even painful, and many people end up feeling lost when facing this behaviour.
Testimonials
Testimonials from companions and their humans
Rated 5 out of 5
“our cats are completely relaxed, they play together”
We contacted Fanny when my partner moved in. He also has a cat (a 4-year-old male). Our two furballs did not get along at all. Mine, a 1.5-year-old female, would constantly attack him and confine him to one room.
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Charlotte Richard
Rated 5 out of 5
“Now, everything seems so simple”
For a long time, everything in the house was organised so that Babou (my beloved cat) and Croquette 😻 (Marjolaine’s cat) would never meet again!!!
Read more of the review by Josette & Marjolaine
Josette & Marjolaine
Rated 5 out of 5
“Today, our two cats move freely throughout the entire house”
We turned to Fanny for help managing the cohabitation between our cat Nouga, adopted 7 years ago, and our new cat Minette, adopted a year ago.
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Caroline
Rated 5 out of 5
“She is professional, attentive, and committed”
Hello, I contacted Fanny because my young one-year-old cat could not stop bothering my senior cat of 16, who didn’t stand a chance against this ball of muscle and energy.
Read more of the review by Morgane Subra
Morgane Subra
Rated 5 out of 5
“thank you to Fanny for her gentleness and her help with my little Salem!”
I recommend her 100%, thank you to Fanny for her gentleness and her help with my little Salem!
Lou G.
Rated 5 out of 5
“this young woman is passionate about her work”
Hello, I was away from home for 5 months after a glider accident, so I had to leave my two kittens, just a few months old, with foster families.
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Arnaud Bouzon
Rated 5 out of 5
“from the very first week, we already saw results!”
A huge thank you to Fanny! 🙏🐱 We reached out to her for our cat Cookie (12 years old) who had been peeing everywhere 🚽🐾 for almost his entire life.
Read more of the review by Maëva Toulouse
Maëva Toulouse
Rated 5 out of 5
“She understands cats like no one else”
Fanny, with her gentle, caring, and extremely professional approach, transformed our daily life and our cat’s.
Read more of the review by Marco Fraschini
Marco Fraschini
Rated 5 out of 5
“we went from 6 pees a day to 3 per week”
Fanny is very gentle and very professional ☺️. I contacted Fanny for a marking problem that one of my cats had for over 6 years. He had been doing it since the very beginning.
Read more of the review by Emma Nackaerts
Emma Nackaerts
Rated 5 out of 5
“Fanny is a very attentive person, without judgement”
Fanny is a very attentive person, without judgement, who provides simple techniques that are easy to put in place.
Crystelle Dugué
Rated 5 out of 5
“Twix is calm when I leave, no more need for the crate”
I recommend!! I was lost with my dog Twix, who couldn’t stand it at all when I left the house… He would destroy everything, and I had no other solution than to put him in a crate.
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Jeanne J
Rated 5 out of 5
“We saw real changes in our cat”
Fanny is very attentive and available. We saw real changes in our cat after her recommendations. We feel we can really trust her.
Julianne Durand
Rated 5 out of 5
“I feel I now understand my little cat better”
I had never had a cat before and needed guidance to understand and respond appropriately to my very young Lulue, who had not been weaned. Fanny was very clear and available.
Read more of the review by Pauline
Pauline
Rated 5 out of 5
“we had complete confidence in her”
Fanny was available to help us with Uli. She communicates well, and we had complete confidence in her to support us with our much-loved dog. We will contact her again if necessary.
Kate & Colin
Rated 5 out of 5
“It was the best decision we could have made”
We are delighted that Fanny took care of Yenka, our 16-year-old dog. It was the best decision we could have made; she could no longer bear to be alone.
Read more of the review by Marta & Alvaro
Marta & Alvaro
Rated 5 out of 5
“Fanny is kind, reliable, and communicated very well with us”
Fanny is kind, reliable, and communicated very well with us. She provided follow-up with regular contact.
Read more of the review by Mars & Yurena
Mars & Yurena
What lies behind their aggression
Why does it happen? What your cat is expressing
Aggression in cats always has a cause: fear, frustration, pain, misunderstanding… or simply a breakdown in communication between human and feline! Before anything else, a veterinary check-up is essential to rule out pain, discomfort, or illness.
Every human-cat duo is unique
There’s no one-size-fits-all recipe for feline aggression. What matters is understanding your cat’s history, your daily life, and the dynamics of your relationship.
Take the example of Marion and Simba: Marion was regularly attacked by Simba, to the point of ending up in the emergency room several times. During our very first session, we identified what was unsettling Simba and adjusted the way Marion interacted with him. The result? A calmer relationship, and a Simba who now even comes looking for contact gently, without attacking. Understanding your cat can sometimes completely transform the relationship.
Why consult a behaviourist?
- To identify the root cause of your cat’s aggression
- To learn to read your cat’s signals (before they bare their teeth!)
- To rebuild trust and closeness, moving toward a calm relationship without fear or tension
My approach
Listening, analysis and caring, personalised support. I help you decode your cat’s needs and adjust your daily interactions. No magic wand, but real, practical tools.
How does the support work?Want to find peace with your cat again? Get in touch!
Tell me what happens before, during and after the attacks: we’ll start with a free video call of about 10 minutes.